Quoted: Toronto’s serial dinner-dater on why the haters are being too harsh

By Caroline Youdan | October 30, 2013

By Caroline Youdan | 10/30/2013

I truly don’t think what I’m doing is that awful. I talk to so many people who said that first dates rarely work out anyway. So what if a guy spends an extra $20?

—Erin Wotherspoon, the 24-year-old serial dater whose campaign to scam luxury meals went viral this week, on why her critics should rein in their vitriol. The actress-slash-blogger claims that her approach (which has actually been formalized by at least one LA-based dating site) isn’t designed to dupe guys, and she isn’t averse to finding an actual relationship. “If I did meet Mr. Right, I’d probably be receptive to him,” she told radio host Jeff McArthur last week. The only problem: “At this point I just keep meeting Mr. Unibrow and Mr. Weirdo.” Hey, at least she’s honest. [Toronto Sun]

19 thoughts on “Quoted: Toronto’s serial dinner-dater on why the haters are being too harsh”

With a fivehead like hers, Mr Unibrow and Mr Weirdo are likely her Mendoza line.

Seriously shut up about this.

Who else is over actress-slash-bloggers?

you mean, shut THE FUCK up about this

LOL HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

a THE FUCK men

So this cheap trollop is a fraud artist. Is that a surprise? The only thing that makes her different from so many other women these days who think the fact they possess a vagina somehow entitles them to free stuff from guys is that she’s admitting it.

“I truly don’t think what I’m doing is that awful”. Sweet cheeks, stupidity or ignorance is no defense under the law. What you’re doing is tantamount to fraud. The thing about fraud is that most of the victims are too humiliated to do anything about it. Steal away, I suppose.

That’s why the first date is dutch. But don’t tell them until the bill comes. So they need to pay for their $20 martini’s and the guy can pay for their $5 beers. Now if the girl has 1 drink and it’s a beer, the guy must pay, anything else, you decide…

When did Toronto guys become whining, complaining little Bitches? Every man that claims to be one always pays or should offer to and accept to do so on any date but especially on the first date. Always been like that, chick is hot, u want to spend time with chick? Then man up, ask her out and pay the f@#* up. If your lucky enough, you get laid that night otherwise guess what, you cough up more dough first a second chance with her or on another person. That’s how it goes! Immature boys!

Anybody but Mr. Unibrow has found better people to date than her.

Honestly people I remember only too well that a good percentage of men would expect a little something for buying a woman a meal, now the tables are turned in a way….and its such a big deal it even makes it onto the news etc. I have a whole list of men who wanted something for taking me for dinner maybe we should do an expose on them. SLOW NEWS DAY I guess

1) You shouldn’t have to LIE about yourself to get dates with “successful” men.

2) She’s clearly using the men because she agrees to a date when she knows she’s not interested in them.
Don’t tell me you never saw a picture of Mr. Unibrow before messaging him to meet up. The creepy part is choosing “ugly” men because she knows they’re desperate.
That’s the morally fucked part.

I just started this online dating thing…let me tell you…why is it ok that a guy wants to meet you at his HOUSE on a first date – someone you don’t even know…because his expectation is he wants sex on the first date…and this girl wants to eat…wow…internet dating has its flaws, pictures do not always show the true person, people write garbage just to fill the space and when you meet…don’t fake it and then never call the person back…if you opt to eat together, then it means you have intentions of doing the second date….most guys ask girls to do the dinner thing whereas most girls want to do the coffee thing so they can run after 15 minutes….no-one forces the guy to do the dinner nor pay, if he offers and pays – it is because he WANTS to. If she wants it that way and he agrees, it is because he WANTS to. End of story.

But Toronto guys have been whining, complaining bitches for long now. Whimpering buffoons or extra aggressive psychopaths.

Men of the world, do not listen to this advice. A woman’s appearance does not equate her value. Why should you pay for her company, do you not think your company is as worthwhile as hers? Is she not having a good time as well? If you’re a man of self-respect and value, your company will be worth more than the dinner bill. Try it, you might find you don’t need to pray you’ll get “lucky” anymore, you’ll simply get what you deserve.

I don’t know what’s worse: this girl’s behaviour, or the people on the FB link claiming it’s okay because men expect women to put out on the first date and she’s just squaring the odds.

Nobody’s walking away with clean hands at the end of this. Her little stunt has effectively backfired, as the legion of criticism leveled against her ensures no one will want to hire her after running a search and seeing the vitriol she spews at her various dates on that blog.