Rufus Wainwright and Jorn Weisbrodt are officially getting hitched (sorry, everyone!)

Attention, gay men of Toronto hoping to steal Rufus Wainwright away from his long-time fiancé, Jorn Weisbrodt: the pair has officially set a date—August 23, 2012. They’ll be getting married in Montauk, Long Island. Reportedly, these details were confirmed via a video sent out to friends showing Wainwright scrawling the wedding info into sand. We can only assume the upcoming nuptials mean Wainwright will retire the song “Instant Pleasure” from his repertoire.